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If You Can’t See The Path…
You’re Looking In The Wrong Direction
Think Outside The Box

I’ve been in the online space since 1998, I had a bad motorcycle accident that radically changed my path. It was as if my guides gave me a boot in the ass and a slap across the face and said “Look stupid, pull your head out of your ass, clean the shit out of your eyes and SEE!” I was a happy bartender before then, slinging poison to the DownTown LA locals one minute and the next I was laying on a highway near death. My right arm was paralyzed as a result of the accident, my bartending days were over, I had to figure out what to do.

The accident happened on April 23, 1998, I was going to Laughlin Nevada for the Laughlin Run, a Harley Davidson event with about 50,000 Harley Riders…I never made it.

I was going through a little interchange from the 5 freeway to the Pear Blossom Highway in Los Angeles, I was slowing down and the back wheel locked up, It took me 20 years to figure that out, I crashed, was unconscious and was airlifted to a hospital, where I was put into an induced coma.

The last three things I remember before crashing, were Leaving Denny’s, we stopped for breakfast, afterward around 7:30 am we got to the interchange…I don’t remember the crash, but afterward I was laying on the ground and my friend thought I was dead. Before I completely passed out, I remember looking to my right and seeing a very big Oak Tree and fog on the ground…I also remember hearing the helicopter that came to get me…and then it was lights out.

I had a Pierre Cardin watch on that a ex-girlfriend gave me, that disappeared…I was wearing gloves and a leather jacket that covered my wrist completely…It could have popped off, but my instincts are telling me that one of the paramedics swiped it. One thing I’ve learned since then is that my instincts are always right.

I brought that up because I want you to realize that your instincts are ALWAYS trying steer you in the right direction, but we listen to the brain and ignore them. We all have that power. I’ll prove it to you…how many times have you been thinking of someone or something and then the phone rings or someone comes to the door and it’s exactly the person or thing you were thinking about. Maybe you were waiting for a package to arrive and then “ding dong”…it’s the mailman or UPS guy with your package. You have that power right now, start listening to it…try to discern your instincts from your brain and the ego.

Notice that I said “The Ego” and not your ego. There is but one ego in the universe, we all share it…just as there is one consciousness that we all share. We are eternal beings having a human experience. Our piece of the one consciousness is not limited to our current incarnation, just as we share the one consciousness, our many incarnations share our piece of consciousness.

Everything we do in every incarnation, affects the consciousness of all our incarnations. Whether it be human or any other type of being. Once we have achieved the human level, we never regress back to plant or “animal”. There are animals, however, that we have all encountered that will be human in their next go-around. That could be why some humans act like animals?

After a month in the hospital, I got to go home and some time later we, my fiance and I, went to the site of our “accident”. I looked where I saw the tree and there was nothing but rocks.

I most definitely had a course correction and was now on the correct path. Head traumas tend to change people…I have to agree with that wholeheartedly! Emotionally I was like a child again…not in a bad way, it was just that ALL the walls, all the indoctrination that I was programmed with was GONE!

Everything I did was as if it was my first time, where nobody said “You can’t do that!” or “what will people think!” My response to those kinds of statements was and still is FUCK YOU!! Time for you to pull your head out. I was going through emotional puberty. As time went on, I learned that you can catch more flies with sugar than you can with vinegar, cliche as that sounds, it’s true. Lead by example is the way…sometimes people do need a jolt to the system, they need a paradigm shift. In cases like that leading by example rarely works…I got a jolt!

People get so programmed, so indoctrinated from the day they are born, it becomes scary and almost life threatening for them to change. We are in a time right now where our consciousness needs a major jolt, a major paradigm shift. It’s VERY hard for me to believe that ANYONE would consider voting for Joe Biden…the man is a pedophile, he’s in China’s back pocket and he and his family are criminals.

There are major investigations going on right now to find out why Hunter Biden got $1,000,000,000 from China, why he got a million dollars from the wife of the ex-mayor of Moscow and why he was on the board of Burisma when he new nothing about energy and didn’t know how to speak Ukrainian.

It’s the same for people who voted for Hillary Clinton…I think most voted for her because they wanted to be part of electing the first woman President. They never bothered to consider her criminal background. They would also regurgitate the propaganda that the media spoon fed them about President Trump…very sad.

Promises Made, Promises Kept

I heard a great analogy about President Trump: “Say you have a house and you need a watch dog, would you rather have a Pitbull or an ankle biter guarding your house?” The idea that a President should be “stately” and refined, no longer works. President Trump is a Pitbull, exactly what this country has needed for a very long time. If you disagree, tell me why, let me know why you think President Trump is a bad President, present your evidence, my mind is wide open.

Send a message through the form on the right and subscribe, so you’ll get updates of new posts. There’s a phrase that is so right on, I’m not sure how someone could read it and disagree. When is the last time we had a President that this has applied to: Promises Made, Promises Kept!

Last Rights

I was given last rights while in the hospital because they didn’t think I would make it, I’ve had 6 of the 7 Sacraments…A friend of mine said I flat-lined at one point, but I’m not sure about that. I was in the hospital for a month. The first two weeks in the induced coma were a trip! I think I discovered my Animal Totem…the Polar Bear, there were 3 of them, I felt no fear or danger.

They were about 10 feet away from me, minding their own business. I also became the Godfather of my fiance’s child, in an odd ceremony where some of my skin was grafted onto the baby. When I was brought out of the induced coma, the first thing I said was, “How’s the baby?” Everyone in the room was puzzled. My fiance had no children.

 When I was brought to the hospital, they did an MRI and saw a clot on my brain, so they cut a large piece of my skull out on the left side, wiped the clot away and induced the coma. Two weeks later they brought me out of it and neither of my arms worked, thankfully the left one started to work again, but the right is still paralyzed 22 years later.

I found out later that 1 person in 10 survives a clot on the brain. I was supposed to get married that June, my fiance was on the back of the bike, she broke some bones, had some road rash, but thankfully recovered fairly well, aside from maybe some emotional scarring.

You Can Read About My 2nd Near Death Experience Here

We postponed the wedding until June 1999, we got married in Ensenada, Mexico. She left me a year later…she wasn’t listening to the priest when he said for better or for worse. She said I changed, to which I always replied, no kidding.

In the time we were married, a friend gave us a computer with Windows 3.1, the first time I got online, it was as if the clouds parted and a light shone down on what lay ahead of me. I taught myself HTML to an expert level which bled into SEO, it was before Google and before it was called SEO (Search Engine Optimization). It’s funny to hear some people use it in a sentence incorrectly…they’ll say: “SEO Optimized”…don’t say that.

For my first online business, I was a reseller for a hosting company and eventually I moved to solely doing SEO. I made a lot of money doing that and moved to Mexico in 2011, being the Digital Nomad that I am. I then opened a Sushi restaurant while down there in a great location, because I Love sushi, but it was on the 2nd floor…everyone was too busy looking at their phones to notice…I sure could have used a funnel then.

Question: How many of you are thinking, Sushi in Mexico? One of the things that made our sushi better than all other sushi restaurants I’ve been to in Mexico, is that we made it California style. In Mexico, nearly all sushi restaurants, use cream cheese to hold the rolls together, because they don’t cook the rice properly. The only rolls we used cream cheese in were the Philadelphia Roll and our own Tropical Judy Roll, both awesome!

On another note, I’m very happy to say, my chef went on to open his own restaurant called Nishiki, it’s a cross between Sushi and Asian food…it’s VERY good. If you’re ever in San Pancho, go to Nishiki, you won’t be disappointed!

We were 5 star rated in Trip Advisor and were getting customers because of it, but not enough to sustain us though. The restaurant kept me very busy and as a result, I lost a lot of my SEO clients. Eventually I moved back to the states (Boston, December 2019) I’m rebuilding my online biz and learning Funnel Hacking and Affiliate marketing to round off my internet skills.

Death Of My Siblings 2020

Fast forward to August 3rd 2020, my sister died of Cancer, I’m happy she finally got to leave her broken down meat-suit prison…fast forward to September 20, 2020…my brother died VERY unexpectedly, he had a “massive cardiac arrest” and dropped dead, he was very physically fit, always worked out…but that guarantees nothing, he just turned 57 September 6th…in this incarnation, he was a year and 3 months older than me.

The difference between a heart attack and cardiac arrest is this, a heart attack happens when the hearts valves get clogged up with plaque from the shitty food you’re eating, like ANY meat, processed foods or processed sugar, which has been scientifically proven to be more addictive than cocaine, the heart tries to pump the blood, but it can’t, so the valves of the heart start to die and that’s when a heart attack occurs. Cardiac Arrest is when there is an electrical short in the heart, you get an irregular heartbeat and then it just stops. If you don’t get help immediately, you die within minutes…he died in his sleep, no pain.

If you’re into numerology, here’s something interesting: My sister died on 8/3/2020, 8+3=11 the year is converted into 22 because you drop the zeros, you don’t add the 2’s together because it’s a master number, as is 11, thus 11/22.

My brother died on 9/20/2020, 9+2=11, again you drop the zeros. It’s the same as if you added 9+20=29, 9+2=11, 2020=22, so both of them died on days that gave them the same master numbers. Now whenever I see 11:11 or the number 22, I’ll think of both of them and take a deeper meaning from it.

Rebuilding Once Again

It Doesn’t Phase Me Anymore, I’m Grateful For My Failures

Here I am on September 21st, 2020 a day after my brother’s death, starting the ClickFunnels 30 day challenge. If you don’t know what Click Funnels is or what a sales funnel is, click the link and check it out. A funnel is the future of the internet for ALL business owners…no matter what business you’re in, you need a sales funnel.

Failure is a gift, if you are afraid to fail, you are afraid to live, you are afraid to change, you are afraid to grow, you are afraid to stand up and say Fuck You, I don’t GIVE A FUCK, what you think of me, your judgement is not a prerequisite for me to LIVE! I will NOT be corralled like a farm animal waiting to be sent to slaughter! I WILL NOT BE SILENCED OR TOLD HOW I SHOULD LIVE BY CORRUPT POLITICIANS WHO ARE LEADING LAMBS TO SLAUGHTER!!! We are LITERALLY being tested right now…

Before you start judging, remember this quote: “As You See Him, You See Yourself”. If you live your life that way, it should lead you to a non-judgemental life and there, helping to stop your wheel of Karma from going faster. There is another quote, when coupled with the first, is like having ABS brakes on your wheel of Karma: “You Are Never Angry For The Reason You Think”. Let those two sink in for a minute or 2. I was talking to my other brother about this very thing, when I started talking about Good Karma vs. Bad Karma, he said he had never heard of Good Karma before. He has always thought when you used the word Karma, you were referring to something bad. Does anyone else think that way?

I understand death more than most after having 2 near death experiences, I now fear nothing because of them, belief in myself is very strong, don’t misunderstand me, after my accident, I felt like half the person I was before it happened, I think that was the Ego trying revive itself…again, don’t misunderstand, I’m VERY GRATEFUL for everything that has happened to me since April 23, 1998 and in my entire life for that matter!

The amount of time I’ve had alone since the accident has been nothing but INCREDIBLE! The 8 years in Mexico was VERY mind opening to say the least, so many things…I’ll be returning home very soon! As I said above, We are Eternal Beings having a human experience. We are here to experience and to learn from those experiences.

Do You Have The Spirit?

I’ve always been an entrepreneur even as a child. I remember when I was very young, maybe about 7 or 8, somebody had thrown a red wooden box in my yard, it had no top and was put together with 2 x .5 pieces of wood, I took one of them off, nailed it across the top and made a shoeshine box and started shining shoes.

My father, then bought me a real shoeshine box…then I was really in business! hahaha. I went out one day and made about $20, that’s a lot for a little kid in the ’70’s. Then when I was about twelve I had a paper route with about 70 customers. I had to go collect money once a week…I was making about $25 – $30 a week. One Christmas, I made $200!

Then I worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant, then a $0.05 & $0.10 or Five & Dime or 5 & 10. After that I worked in a supermarket as a bag boy, I got a “promotion” to the dairy department, I also helped stock shelves at night…I was about 15 or 16 then.

My point of all that is, I’ve always had an Entrepreneurial Spirit, I’ve always believed in myself. Before I moved to Mexico in 2011, I had a couple $100,000 years from my ventures online…ALL SELF TAUGHT. The point of the title of this post is, this “pandemic” is forcing you to stay home…that’s the silver lining. What have you been doing to better yourself? What are you doing while “stuck at home”? You can learn so much from the internet…everything you want to know can be found online. I’m working on a new website that will be dedicated to teaching you how to make money online.

When I think about Love, I feel it all around me, no matter where I am or what I’m doing and I know you can too. I feel it right now as I type these words, I feel it when reading an email from someone, I feel it when I’m watching a movie because words are powerful things, whether they are vocalized, written or thought of they have power! something I really started thinking of when I was living in Mexico, learning the language, is that Love transcends all.

You can go to another part of the world, know nothing about the language see someone that you are attracted to and whether you realize it or not, you are transmitting Love, some may feel it and respond in a like manner, it’s as if you were attached to the other parson, like a quantum entanglement, that is especially true when you are speaking with someone on the phone that you care deeply about. You feel every word.

A person could just speak gibberish, but with intent. The intent is what gives words power. Try it, say Fuck You, with Love as the intent, then hate as the intent, then with the intent of laughter. Even when you get into a heated discussion with someone and you get pissed at the other person and say Fuck You to them, the Love you feel for that person will be transmitted and the person will receive your Love wrapped in temporary anger.

The anger will be dissolved by the underlying Love, the person it was directed at will feel that and hopefully be attuned (To bring into a harmonious or responsive relationship) to what just happened. Even when you’re not fully aware of these things, you will still feel it and act in a manner conducive to the way you both feel. I wanted to see if I used the word Attuned correctly and that is the definition I found. That is why I Love the internet, speaking of Love.

All I did was type the word attune into the address bar, not the search box, but the address bar of Firefox and the definition comes up instantly. I use Duck Duck Go in FireFox. If that doesn’t work in your browser, just type in “Define: Your Word Here” without the quotation marks and replace Your Word Here with the word you want defined.

You may laugh because I told you to replace Your Word Here with the word you want defined, but there are people who are still learning how to use the internet. You would be surprised how many people I’ve spoken with that don’t know what a browser is! They know how to use one, but they don’t know what it’s called. Therein is a good chance to practice Love, by not laughing at them and just understanding where they are in their internet experience.

Speaking of Love, I would very much Love to help you to start making money online, whether it be something you want to do full time, so you have more time to spend with your family, or you just want to make some money to supplement your income…I want to help. This is my path. I’m not going to tell you it’s easy…not at first…it does require a bit of work, but eventually you’ll have something that works for you 24 hours a day, does not complain, and never asks you for a raise. I’m not trying to sell you on a get rich quick scheme, because they are non-existent.

All I’m asking in return is for you to start being more aware of Love and to put your email address in the subscribe box at the top on the left, so you’ll get updates when I post something new. More importantly, you’ll be notified when I launch my new site, that will be dedicated to teaching you how to make money online. Is that OK? Is that a fair trade? Just go to the top of the page next to the header nmage on the right and subscribe. I’ll send you everything below.

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Final Thoughts

These are thoughts I had while reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki, if you haven’t read it, I suggest you buy it today and read it. The words in quotes below are quotes from the book.

“The lack of money is the root of all evil” It’s not the other way around. People say ‘Money is the root of all evil’ because:

• They are afraid of it
• They don’t realize the power of money or how it works…get the book and you’ll find out.
• They are afraid of failure
• They don’t understand that failure is a gift
• We need failure to learn and grow
• They’re lazy and don’t want to work on themselves, because they’re afraid of change.
• They are so indoctrinated into the slave culture that they think it’s impossible for them.

Money is just a friendly tool that can help break the chains that hold you down. “The subject of money is taught at home, not in school.”

I remember arguing with my mother about something…it may have been about school or money…but at one point I said to her “I don’t want to grow up to be like both of you”, meaning her and my father. I do regret ever saying that. I am EXTREMELY grateful for everything I’ve learned from the two of them…I am who I am at my core because of them.

“Being broke is temporary, being poor is eternal”

Money is power and the power of your thoughts need to be considered,
you need to be aware of your thoughts and how you carry yourself.

“If you want to learn to work for money, then stay in school” where you’ll be indoctrinated into the slave culture.

Most people simply roll over and learn to be submissive because it’s easier to let fear control their lives.

“Passion is anger and Love combined” Find something you are passionate about and do it! Make it work for YOU!

Stop pointing fingers at non-existant problems, there’s a word for that, it’s called PROJECTION, look within, you have the entire Universe at your disposal, remember that quote from above: “As You See Him, You See Yourself”

A friend of mine once said, “Money is only good if you know you are not going to die tomorrow” That is mostly true, you can’t be a slave to money. I think when you realize that you are protected, break the chains of your indoctrination, see that money really means nothing and you give without ever expecting anything in return, you’ll find that it boomerangs for you and comes back in beautiful ways.

You have to tell the truth, to everyone, but especially to yourself, this applies to everything in your life.

Face your fears, watch your reactions and projections, tell YOURSELF the TRUTH!
Forgive yourself for being afraid, but don’t use fear as an excuse or a crutch, figure out the why! Face your truth, accept it, forgive it, move on with the knowledge that you’ve learned and grow wiser and realize that your fears are unfounded.

When you don’t tell yourself the truth, you react to your emotions and fail to think, your emotions override logic and critical thinking when you let fear(the ego) keep you enslaved.

“Intelligence solves problems and produces money, money without financial intelligence is money soon gone.”

I see the path in front of me very clearly…how about you?

My message to anyone reading this, the only thing preventing you from doing ANYTHING you want to do is YOU!!! Look within, face your demons (the ego) and tell them to fuck off! Remember this: The obstacle IS the way!

Peace, Love & Blessings To All!!!

Oliver